The dangers of the internet for children

In this episode of Everything Counts, host Motheo Khoaripe speaks with Emma Sadleir Berkovitz, founder of the Digital Law Company and Africa’s authority on social media law and digital risk, and Ndivhuwo Mulaudzi, a cybersecurity awareness specialist at Investec, to discuss practical ways parents can keep their children safe online.

Child safety online starts with parental communication

The first step in protecting children online is open communication. Emma and Ndi stress that building trust allows children to confide in parents about uncomfortable experiences online. Discussing the possibility of strangers behind profiles, inappropriate messages, or risky behaviour is essential.

“Start building communication channels and eventually influence their behaviour,” says Ndi. “A parent-child relationship is critical to preventing exposure to predators.”

Teaching digital hygiene and online safety 

Digital hygiene goes hand-in-hand with awareness. Parents are encouraged to:

• Explain privacy rules and responsible online behaviour
• Model good online habits at home
• Limit screen time for young children
• Introduce online safety tips, such as avoiding sharing personal information and understanding the risks of AI-generated content like deepfakes

Emma emphasises that while controlling devices is important, conversations about responsible behaviour are equally crucial to instilling lifelong online safety habits.

Monitoring games and online content for children

Not all online activity is harmless. Gaming platforms can expose children to inappropriate content, violence, and social pressures. Ndi recommends using resources like Common Sense Media to evaluate content, along with parental control apps to monitor usage.

"Children love facts,” says Emma. “When we explain how algorithm-driven content can impact their brains, it helps them understand why certain online spaces may not be safe."

Cyberbullying and online extortion

One of the most concerning cyberbullying effects is online extortion, where predators pressure children to share content or money. Ndi notes that many victims feel ashamed and hesitant to report incidents. Statistics show that cyberbullying in South Africa is a growing problem and parents need to be proactive in creating safe spaces for their children to speak up.

Key signs of cyberbullying or distress include:

• Mood changes or withdrawal
• Drop in academic performance
•  Loss of interest in offline activities
• Excessive secrecy with devices

Tools to protect children online

Technology can assist parents in safeguarding their children. Recommended tools include:

• Apple’s Screen Time and Google Family Link for basic monitoring
• Paid apps like Bark, OurPact or Qustodio for alerts on cyberbullying, self-harm or grooming attempts
• Monitoring unusual app usage, such as apps disguised under calculator icons

Emma advises that tools should complement, not replace, active parental involvement. The best protection combines parental controls with ongoing dialogue and education.

Encouraging healthy online habits for children

Password management and two-factor authentication are essential for account security. Emma warns against sharing passwords to maintain streaks on apps like Snapchat, as this can create vulnerabilities. Parents should guide children on:

• Recognising suspicious contacts
• Avoiding unsafe content
• Balancing screen time with offline activities

Regular check-ins, observation of behavioural changes and fostering trust remain the most effective ways to ensure children navigate the online world safely.